The Story Behind "Tease"
My favorite lyrics from this song are " Can we repeat this song? I need one more dance, dont separate from me while something's growing in your pants 👖 "...
So a lot of people dont know this but I once worked as an entertainer. An exotic dancer, or erotic dancer if we keeping it 1000. One of the best times of my life hands down. I got to do whatever I wanted to do every single day, I made lots of money of course, I met so many amazing people and I learned so much about life. But the point is, the song "Tease" is a reflection of how I felt and operated when I worked as an entertainer and how I learned the power dynamics between men and women. Men and women both have the same powers when it comes to attraction its all just a matter of who has the stronger energy, & confidence and thus holds the power. Anyways in the club, through a lot of trial and error, of course, I realized that like with most things in life 'Less Is More'. And the less I did, the further I got. All I had to do was show up as my best self and I would always win, is what I eventually learned. I had previously caught myself doing the most and getting nothing in return at all, nowadays this has a term, its called being a "Pickmesha" lol. But after I got my feelings hurt and embarrassed myself a million times I was like 'Fuck that!' No more Ms.NiceGirl lol, it sounds so cliche I knowwwww, but its true. I then did the research, and the work to change my mindset. Mindset is everything. Confidence comes from mindset. And I forced myself to learn how to be like those girls that were 'winning'. They never do shit, I noticed. And I practiced and now I get it. Its not a game to play, its not about getting over on people or any of that lame ass shit. Its about knowing who you are. In the song tease I talk about turning somebody on to the point where they lose all sense of reality and will risk it all to give you what you want because they want you just that bad. And of course I took that practice from there and now apply it everywhere possible in my day to day life. But understand this, when you know who you are, and you show up as your best self every single time, you will realize that you don't have to do a goddamn thang, you are enough, and that people should be grateful for a lil "tease" until YOU decide otherwise. You choose who is deserving of your time, energy, affection, sex, beauty, or whatever, and you decide to what extent. Period.
-Mecca Musa
(In the photo are some of the ladies
that came through for "Tease" video shoot
In this $3500 penthouse I had no sense renting, smh.)
